Dear The Bridal Guru,

Recently my fiancé and I saw the movie, The Wedding Ringer. We love the movie. It was hilarious. However, it got us thinking. What's wrong with renting our attendants. We have a lot of friends and family and to include all would look like the march of the Seventh Calvary. So, what if I rented my Maid of Honor and he rented his Best Man to be politically correct? Can we do this?

Rental in Reno

Dear Rental in Reno,

First, you can do anything you want. It's your wedding. But, do you want perfect strangers standing at the altar with you, by your side, at this most sacred time as you say your vows and your "I do's"? I know I would people that mean something in my life to be by my side at this time.

Granted it is a trend to rent your attendants. They come dressed and ready in whatever for your wedding. And if what they wear is not important and you are an unconventional couple, then fine. If you feel this will ease ruffled feathers and avoid hurt feelings by not including family and friends, who am I to say, don't do this. Every wedding is unique and different and every couple have what is most important to them in their ceremony. If renting your attendants gets you out of some hot spots, go for it. I know being the maid of honor and best man can put a strain on the friendship due to the commitments required of these honored positions. Paying someone means they have the pressure of these roles and their responsibilities and duties. It's not a bad idea. And if you want them to wear a specific dress, book them early enough so they have time to get that dress you want.

If you do end up renting your attendants, let me know how it goes. Most important, have a great wedding with the love of your life.

The Bridal Guru

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