Aug 08, 2013 | Posted by: abi s

Your wedding day is not just a big deal it is probably the biggest deal you will have encountered up to this point. Finding your wedding dress is not going to be easy. Even if you think you know the style of dress you want, even if you have seen a dress that makes your mouth water, nothing is ever a done deal until you have signed on the dotted line. There have been brides who have purchased several dresses because they just could not make up their minds, not everyone can afford to be that extravagant. Below are 5 tips to help you in your search for the perfect wedding dress ...

1. Remember that this is not supposed to be a chore. The entire process of looking at wedding dresses should be fun. Ideally it should be entered into as if you are going on a great adventure with a few members of the family or some friends. What makes it stressful is a) too many opinions and b) not having enough time.

2. Start the process early on. The search for a wedding dress should not be entered into lightly, in order to have that relaxed feeling allow yourself months to look around. Many brides wait until a month or so before the wedding to start looking, they forget that alterations will need to be made and this takes time.

3. Make sure of the fit. This is going to be the most photographed dress you will ever wear. And the videos and photos will be around along time. It would be a shame to have to look at an ill-fitting wedding gown for a lifetime. The most important thing is that you feel and look fabulous.

4. Consider additions to change it up. Many brides buy things like sashes or have a detachable train. These are great for giving you a second look for the reception. Some will buy a second dress, a cocktail dress in a similar style and material works perfectly for the reception and for traveling to the honeymoon.

5. It is one dress for one day. Although this is the most important dress and date so far in your life it is still only one day and it is only the beginning of the greatest adventure of all "MARRIAGE".

If money is a problem you may need to be open minded about what type of dress you are seeking. It is possible to find sample wedding dresses for a fraction of their retail price. Look at some of the designer bridesmaid dresses, many could actually double as a wedding gown with a few embellishments and a veil. Look to iwedplanner for more wonderful tips and ideas before going to look for your wedding dress. Take advantage of the resource guide, and the free wedding planner apps for iPhone , iPad and Android as well as the free wedding website and other planning tools.