Comment allez-vous terminer?

It goes without saying that my favorite photos to take at a wedding are these “posed candids” where I take the bride & groom to a beautiful location, pose them romantically, and create this surreal shot which iconifies their wedding and blossoming marriage. Perhaps it’ll be blown up, on canvas and framed in their new home, right when you walk inside, so everyone knows exactly what kind of marriage they have. But those of us who are or were married know that no marriage or relationship is like this shot. There are struggles of all kinds, most of which you never know or expect, and don’t’ know how to deal with. Now how about getting a photo depicting that and having it framed? Of course not. We want to show beauty, romance & happiness. It seems like marriage is like a reverse bell curve. It starts out high, then dips low, lower, and then after a while, if you survive, things get sorted out and hopefully it ends on a very high note. At that point that couple can sit back and reflect on all